As I often see this someone at a particular place where I usually go, it kept on confusing me that something in that person has changed. That person used to be my friend or at least an acquiantance. I've been thinking that for the past few days. I'll just missed everything from how we started as "friends". Okay, that was enough.
People change unexpectedly or at least the way they want to be change.
Another thing that I have encountered was during my Lola's wake. My Dad didn't get any chance to see his mother's funeral because he's in abroad. However, I know he was hurt. As I visit my Lola - together with my Mom, younger sister and my Mom's side relatives, it seems that the people there were so cold as we arrived. I thought I' am the only one who felt that strange feeling. It seems odd and uncomfortable. The treatment we were expecting that time was so unexpected. It's hard not to see my Lola's funeral. I was hurt when I saw my Lola fighting for cancer and for not remembering us during her sickness.
We don't have any communication at all. I' am not angry with them nor jealous whenever they were having their "reunion". I' am still thankful that I have a much better tita's, tito's and cousins on my mom's side relatives. They can make me laugh as always, give parental advice and treat each other like friends. And I think that's what family is for. :)
Changing has a matter of choices. It's either you want to be likable to everyone or you want to improve yourself. You have so many choices to choose from but what's important is you change for the better. And I know that everybody has something in themselves that they can actually be proud of. Just learn how to give out what nice person you are and it will come to you as well the nice-est personality you've been expecting to get from other people. :)
*smile.
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